Wednesday, February 1, 2017

January 29, Meeting at Ann F's Home


Prepared by Ann S.
 
On Sunday, January 29, we met at Ann Fitzherbert's lovely home.  Ann, thank Tony for us, that driveway was as dry as mid summer in Arizona.

The book for discussion was "Becoming Nicole". Born a twin boy,  Nicole as a toddler identified only as a girl.  The family did not influence her in this choice but gave her the opportunity to choose either male or female toys, dress, or activities.  Most feel this early "knowing" justified her gender reassignment surgery before puberty.  We understood the father's difficulty accepting Nicole's wish to be a girl, and we applauded his later support.   There was a bit of disagreement as to whether Nicole's use of the staff bathroom was a suitable solution.  As for Jonas, he says always saw a sister, not a brother, and he seems to not resent or have difficulty with her choice.

It was a bit of an different meeting in that the discussion centered more around the subject of the book rather than the book itself.  Thanks to Kathy's book suggestion this meeting found us talking about changes taking place in our world right now.  A major issue in today's transgender news is discrimination.  Marilyn brought up the fact that refusing a service to anyone whose sexual lifestyle is against your belief is no different than refusing a person whose religion or color differs from yours.  It was nice to learn on Monday that the Boy Scouts are now accepting transgender children.
 
We voted on Marilyn's book suggestions .  Winner:  Cat’s Cradle, Kurt Vonnegut.  This will be our book for March 26.

Next Meeting:     February 26, 2017 - Book "Mrs. Dalloway" by Virginia Woolf
Place:                 Sunset Grille              Dianne, can you ask Steven and Kelly if we can meet there?

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